When a parent is considering divorce, their most common concern is how it will affect their children. The truth is divorce will affect your children, but you have some say over how. If you and your spouse consistently put your children’s needs first during and after...

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Your Kids Cope With Divorce: 10 Common Reactions and What You Can Do
The Emotional Impact of Divorce on Children Going through a divorce is difficult enough for couples, but when children are involved, it adds another layer of complexity and concern. Knowing what to expect can help you support them better during this challenging...
Help! My Spouse Asked for Divorce. What Should I Do Now? 6 Steps You Should Take
If your spouse just blindsided you by asking for a divorce, you likely feel overwhelmed and unsure of what to do next. With divorce rates rising, you’re not alone. You have people who care about you and the resources to get through this. You probably feel stunned,...
What are some of the most challenging assets to divide in a divorce?
In a North Carolina divorce, you’ll have to divide your marital assets. That is to say, any money or property that belongs to both of you must be divided equitably. Most property acquired during the marriage is considered marital, rather than separate, regardless of...
Should you try to keep the house in the divorce? 4 things to consider
Deciding what to do with the family home during a divorce is an emotional and complex decision. If you own a home, you may be thinking about keeping it, if you can afford to do so. This is especially common when the house is your children’s childhood home. This is an...
5 common back-to-school issues for divorced or divorcing parents
The first day of school can be challenging for any parent, but even more so for divorced or separated parents who now have to co-parent. If this is your first time navigating the school year as co-parents, don't worry - with some planning and communication, you can...
Divorcing later in life? Co-parenting in healthy ways
Divorce later in life, often referred to as "gray divorce," has become increasingly common in recent years. Experts predict that divorce after 50 will continue to grow, with numbers doubling between 1990 and 2015. While contemplating divorce after the children have...
What is a ‘sleep divorce’ and does it predict actual divorce?
A sleep divorce is when a married couple decides they must sleep in separate beds or bedrooms. It’s one solution to the many common problems couples face that keep them from sleeping well together. Is sleeping together absolutely necessary for a happy marriage? No,...
Will my inheritance be divided in my divorce?
If you are getting divorced in North Carolina, the answer is no, generally not. Property inherited by one spouse before or during the marriage is considered separate property, not marital property. Only marital property is divided in a North Carolina divorce....
Have you experienced financial infidelity in your marriage?
It’s much more common than you might think. One spouse hides a stash of money from the other – or incurs a debt the other spouse never agreed to. It’s called “financial infidelity.” The act of financial deception can not only undermine trust but also have long-term...